When everyone is talented, what actually makes someone stand out?

A New Year’s Eve conversation about RuPaul’s Drag Race led me somewhere unexpected — to college admissions, and a meditation on presence, authenticity, and what gets recognized beyond polish and performance.

When my daughter began her college search, I thought I understood how her college search should go. I was wrong—and what followed shaped the Deep-Fit approach we use at Lantern College Counseling today.

In the age of AI and high-pressure admissions, how do you know what ethical college counseling looks like? This article outlines a practical, student-first framework grounded in experience from the admissions office, the dean’s office, the college classroom, and one-on-one work with families.

What really happens behind closed doors in a college admissions office? As a former member of Wellesley College’s Board of Admissions who also partnered with the Deans of Admission at MIT and Olin to create selective dual-degree programs, I’ve seen how decisions are made — and why strong students are sometimes denied. In this article, I share the insider lessons I now use to help families cut through the mystery, focus on what truly matters, and guide students toward both acceptance and long-term success.

Is it really possible to get into top colleges like MIT and Harvard while writing a college essay about video games? Yes. See how one Lantern student did it — and why admissions officers care more about the reflection and growth the essay reveals than the subject itself.

As artificial intelligence reshapes the job market, what kind of education truly prepares students to thrive professionally? This article explores how liberal arts engineering programs—rooted in technical rigor and humanistic inquiry—build “AI-proof” skills like ethical reasoning, adaptability, and communication, with concrete examples and guidance for families seeking forward-looking, purpose-driven programs.

The college search process should not be about chasing rankings or superficial factors. It isn't all about getting in - it is about what happens during college.

At a Deep-Fit college, students can achieve their personal and academic goals, have impactful experiences, thrive, develop confidence and agency, and lay the foundation for a successful life.

Once a student arrives on their college campus, what can they do to make the most of their time? How can they set themselves up for success during and after college? With decades of experience teaching, mentoring, and advising undergraduate students, I have deep insights about what it means—and takes—to thrive in college. This article shares my roadmap for college success which includes specific action items in the areas of wellness, academic success, knowing and using resources, building community, and creating a future. I hope it helps students navigate their college experience confidently and with agency.

Your child must understand how AI works on a high level. In its current form, AI can do a great job on things already done. Its output is a mashup or collection of what has already been written and created. There must be data out there for it to provide a good response. One way to think about AI is as a sophisticated, highly-powered search engine. With this lens, AI is actually not so new.

On May 10, I presented at the IECA 2023 Spring Conference in Seattle, WA, in the Featured College Session titled "Is Artificial Intelligence Changing College Counseling?" During the panel discussion, I shared my insights from my career as a computer science professor, engineering dean, and IEC specializing in STEM with a focus on the impact of AI on college counseling and higher education.

Computer Science skills can be developed through a top-ranked CS program (via a strong CS fingerprint built up in high school), a CS major at a small liberal arts college (perhaps after discovering a CS interest in college), post-baccalaureate or graduate work, a job, and activities. Opportunities abound for someone with talent and a genuine interest in computer science.

In November of 2022, ChatGPT, the chatbot launched by OpenAI, exploded onto the scene of social consciousness. How text generated by computer software powered by artificial intelligence (AI) will shape and change society remains to be seen. Many questions are raised in the domain of college applications: how will colleges respond to this new tool?

An academic life is rewarding. My favorite day of the year is the first day of the academic year each fall. The campus buzzes with excitement, promise, and potential as all the students return. When walking across the quad, the energy is palpable and infectious. It is a privilege to be surrounded by young adults as they develop their identities and to participate in this process.

On November 9, I presented an educational session at the 2022 IECA Fall Conference in San Diego, CA, titled “Navigating the Computer Science Admissions Landscape,” based on my article “Navigating the Competitive Landscape of Computer Science Admissions: An Expert’s Approach.”

“You know, when you have some interest, that gets you excited. That makes you get up in the morning. That makes you want to do more than the minimum. That is an important element. And that is something you can get anywhere. That doesn’t happen only at Ivy League institutions, you know.” - Dr. Rob Playter

References can help admissions officers distinguish between students who look alike on paper, those with like grades in similar classes, roughly equivalent standardized test scores, and common extracurricular activities. The strongest letters of reference are written by a current or recent (junior year) teacher who knows the student well and can provide anecdotes and details about the student beyond their grades.

The COVID-19 pandemic first hit college and university campuses in the middle of the spring 2020 semester, upending traditional academic and co-curricular experiences for the entire campus community. But even as campuses shut down and students, faculty, and staff were sent home, admissions officers released decisions just as they do every March. So, what happened from there on out?